the end of '07...

Well, the beginning of the end of the year is here. Today is the first official day of winter as well as my last day of teaching for a few weeks and I am feeling good. Thankfully, I'm not just feeling good because I'm off from work for a while (of course that's PART of the reason) but it seems that I'm ending 2007 year on an upswing. Last night I went out for dinner and drinks with some of the teachers from Naruto Jr. High while Curt stayed in and relaxed in my apartment (I've been keeping him busy so he was happy to take a day off). I was excited to spend time with this group because we all feel at ease with each other and often share good conversation. As we sat down to have our first drink, I began to reflect on how I felt a few months ago when I was going out to eat with group after group of unfamiliar faces. My beginning experiences with this current job and living situation are a bit hazy in my memory (possibly due to the late summer heat) but one thing that I have been able to do is track the progression of my relationships with the people that I spend my time with here. I think that many JETs would agree that it feels a bit like you are thrown into a life here at first and since I teach at four schools and have about 1,000 students it was hard to sort out the newness of everyone and everything. My classes all seemed to run together in my head and it took me a good amount of time to realize what I can and can't do (or 'should or shouldn't do' maybe is more fitting) with each group of kids. Also, I didn't recognize at first how the dynamics of a classroom are specific to the particular set of conditions in which you are faced with the moment that you walk through the door. For example, earlier today I taught a 7th grade class that is usually a very cooperative and enthusiastic bunch. But it's the last day before winter break, their assigned seats were just changed, and there was an assembly coming up the next period so the familiar feeling of class 1-C wasn't there this morning. But, I've gotta say, since I've already seen so much in my four and a half months here, Adaptation is my middle name.

But back to personal relationships. I certainly can't speak for every foreigner who teaches here or moves to Japan from another country but trying to establish myself an positive member of my community has been the thing that makes me feel the best about living where I do. I definitely have a lot more that I can do in order to involve myself in things around town but now that I've got my footing here I feel like I can easily lend myself to my community. Living in Naruto gives me the feeling of something like what it would be to live in a small city in West Virginia (and Curt agrees) so it's been an eye-opening experience to step out of the partial anonymity of six years of city life in Pittsburgh and now take on the VERY public role that I am in right now in rural Japan. Realizing that the people that I have surrounding me include a group of progressive-minded educators makes me happy that I can be in the position that I'm in. This thought really hit me at dinner last night when I looked around and thought, "Wow, I'm really getting to know these people" when, only months ago, he or she was just another addition to a list of new faces.

So here begins the winter break. My neighbors Jill and Theo are already in Vietnam and The Philippines respectively and in less than a week I'll be meeting up with Caitlin and Jon in Thailand. And if someone would have told me a few years ago that my brother Curt would be visiting me in Japan I would have had a hard time believing it, but we've already spent about a week together. Like Julia's visit in September, it's comforting to know that that another person has seen your day-to-day life when it can sometimes feel so solitary. I lucked out last weekend when my friend Stacie unexpectedly let me use her car for the week in exchange for a parking space while she is back in Iowa for Christmas. And I think Curt was pretty happy that we could bypass the miles of brisk bike rides to school, the grocery store, and other places that aren't a stone's throw away. Even though he didn't have to bike, I feel like I've shown him what life is really like here.

The mark of a new year is a logical time for reflection of what you're doing and what you have done to get where you are. If you ask Julia, she'll tell you that I'm notorious for periodically inquiring, "OK, let's talk about what we were both doing one year ago." Well, for me that answer could not be more related to the present. A year ago I was in Japan. I had a paid month off of work and I took 17 days to visit Julia and ride the the trains with my visitor railpass. Today would have been my last day in Japan before catching the flight back to the States (that I ALMOST missed). I applied for JET only weeks before, and so began my ongoing relationship with this country...

So this will probably be the last post for a while. Curt and I leave for Kyoto early tomorrow morning and on Thursday I'm off to Bangkok, Chaing Mai, Pai, Luang Prabang (Laos), and some nameless wooded areas for a nice change of pace for this New Year. I'll be loading up on pictures as always so expect a lot of new sights on here upon my return (January 8th). And if you send me something and I don't get back to you it's only because I'm not around....I'll try to write back as soon as I'm able!

Until then, take care and happy New Year!!!

(But of course I have to put a few more pictures of Curt up to show how huge he is compared to everyone else in Japan.)


Me, Curt, and my Wednesday night adult class.


Curt and the the Tokushima Women's Basketball Club after a few hours of practicing. A night we won't soon forget.